Thursday, 23 November 2017

Strategies For Dealing With A Teenager Broken Heart

By Joshua Martin


As the parent of a teen, you may be well-versed in the emotional ups and downs that come with having one of these adolescents in your home. One day your teen is fine. The next day, he or she is raging and crying against the world. The ups and downs are part of the teenage years, and you will survive it just like your parents survived yours. Still, you may have no idea what to do the first time your child suffers a teenager broken heart. You can gain experience dealing with the temporary romantic crisis and turn the child's attention to other things in life by using these tips.

You may have no luck at reminding your son or daughter how fortunate he or she is to have certain comforts in life. Suggesting that they be grateful for having a house, food, cell phone, and car may fall on deaf ears for most parents. Teenagers today tend to expect these comforts and may be so subjective that they cannot put the full value on these luxuries yet.

Further, this attempt to gloss over the hurt does not address the underlying situation, which is rejection of their love interest. Being rejected is a major fear of most teens. At this age, they need to be accepted and if not loved at least admired by their peers. Rejection can be a deep wound to their psyche.

They also do not want their parents' consolation because it is not on the same level as the love of their intended romantic partner. They already know that their parents love them. They likewise may already take that love for granted because it has never been threatened. Still, it cannot take the place of the love that they want from the person who rejected them.

When you are truly at your wit's end, you might try simply putting them to work. They can get a job and earn some money to make them feel better about themselves. They also would be compelled to focus on something else at least for a few hours at a time. In due time, your child may soon be able to process and move on from the rejection.

Chores like raking, mowing, taking out the garbage, and other general cleaning can be good for the entire body and mind. Hard work pumps blood throughout the body and encourages the brain to create endorphins that induce feelings of happiness. In time, your daughter or son may start to act and feel normally again.

The ultimate consolation could come with rewarding your child with a trip or shopping excursion at a favorite place. Many kids respond well to having things bought for them. The crisis may be dealt with permanently, and the teen's attention could be placed on the new possession as well as friends, school, and other matters in life.

Teens can be difficult to live with under the best of circumstances. You may not look forward to soothing your son or daughter after a broken heart. However, it comes with parenting. These tips can make the entire task easier.




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